Monday, July 31, 2017

Heather Takes Manhattan

New York, New York

I am so fortunate to have friends who live right in Times Square, and a flight attendant mom who make it possible for me to be a part of it in old New York at least once a year. I usually fly in and out in a New York minute for a quick weekend trip, but this year I took the time to really do the city right, and my good friend Amy joined me for what was by far the best trip I’ve ever taken there.

The planning began when we learned Billy Joel would be performing his monthly residency at Madison Square Gardens on July 5th. With a built in vacation day on the 4th, it seemed the perfect opportunity to stay and see all that is American in NYC, as well enjoy the culture of the city from the perspective of the locals. We did it all- sightseeing, baseball, dining, drinking on rooftop bars with a view of the empire state building… and the best part? I got to sit in playing xylophone with a grammy-award winning band!



I’m a terrible tourist or great, depending on your perspective! Though I'm there enough that New York feels like my second home anyway)  in that I’ve been to NYC at least a dozen times and never done any of the traditional touristy things besides Broadway. This year, I did it all with Amy’s persuasion and enthusiasm for the patriotic elements of the city :) 
When we arrived Sunday, we went straight to brunch at one of my favs- rooftop restaurant Hotel Chantelle, featuring live music and .92 cent cocktails! The rest of the day was r and r with our fabulous hosts at their apartment just off broadway in the heart of Manhattan. 

                                                     Brunch at Hotel Chantelle

Monday we took a train to Coney Island. The beaches were PACKED (I proclaimed that ‘everyone is in the Hamptons this week, and everyone else must be here’!). We walked the boardwalk and out to the pier, took a ride on the nearly 100 year-old Wonder Wheel (eek!), and shared an original Nathan’s Hot Dog. It wasn’t spectacular, but it was a lot nicer than I expected, and certainly fun to say we did it;)
That evening, I had the privilege to play with Vince Giordano and the Nighthawks at their house gig at The Iguana. A friend of mine put me in touch with the band leader who actually brought a xylophone for me to play (not an easy thing to cart around in the city I’m sure!). The place was hopping from 8-11pm- make a reservation, as we barely got in, and probably only did because he had schlepped the xylophone for me!
                                                         with Vince Giordano
                                         Sitting in with Vince Giordano and the Nighthawks
                                                   Martini at the Iguana- I did it! 

Afterward, we headed a few blocks uptown to the Rum Club, where they host a jazz jam on Monday nights. The music here was just as fantastic, and cocktails were fairly reasonably priced.

On the 4th of July, we looked into river cruises to watch the fireworks, but the price tag was steep and didn’t seem worth it. Instead, we took the Staten Island ferry past the Statue of Liberty. Hint: When you board the boat, go immediately to the top deck on your right. You’ll get almost as close to the island as you would on a private tour, and this way it’s free! When you reach the other side, move QUICKLY to board another ferry back, or plan to wait 25 minutes. 
                                                   Staten Island Ferry selfie :)

Afterward, we had dinner at the very interesting cheese restaurant, Raclette, and then we walked from 9th Ave and 43rd street all the down to the west river for the fireworks. It was a good distance, but certainly doable, and necessary, after all that cheese. The fireworks were lovely; however, unless you plan to spend the day waiting near the main stage, there is no emotionally- moving music accompaniment to this huge spectacle of explosions. It felt a little anti-climatic compared to the magical displays at Disney World.
Wednesday, we started the day out with brunch at Bubby’s, followed by a walk on the high line.
                                NYC Highline-traintracks converted into a park above the city
                                      
We then caught a subway to Yankee Stadium where I got to see my two teams play- the Yankees and the Blue Jays. Next, was dinner at Lupa, Billy Joel at Madison Square Gardens (AMAZING!), drinks at the Vu NYC, and a trip up the Empire State Building. Busy, but oh so fun day :) 

Thursday, I finally saw the 9/11 memorial. This was an emotional moment, as the memories of that day flooded back and I remembered the panicked feeling of wondering if my mom was on one of those planes. She was flying for American Airlines at the time, and was based out of Boston, where one of the planes had left from. And yet my fear could not begin to compare to that of those who were right there in the thick of it all at the World Trade Center. It was a solemn moment visiting that site. I was thoroughly appalled by the people taking selfies, and clearly not recognizing the significance this monument must have for others who were there visiting the names of their lost loved ones. I was however glad to see that we have re-built, and life is continuing on in the financial district. There’s a really neat Occulus mall nearby which houses lots of unique shops, if you’re into that sort of thing. 

I just got my American citizenship in 2014, and I definitely felt more American after this visit to the Big Apple than I ever have before. Special thanks to my amazing friends who were the hostesses with the mostess, and helped us plan our travel and itineraries each day! I promise, I’ll get better about using my Google Maps for next time ;) It’s such a big city, and it can be overwhelming if you don’t have someone local to help you sort it all out. Hopefully this blog will serve as a starting point for some of you, and maybe even suggest some great restaurants you haven’t heard of to those who live there! Everyone who knows me knows my vacations are built around eating, drinking, and people watching, so I’ll include details for each of my current favourite establishments in my next post :) 
 And here’s to you, NY, NY!

Stay tuned for part two: Dining and Drinking in Manhattan, Heather- style:) 


Saturday, July 8, 2017

Calistoga, Napa Valley



When my close family friends announced their son was getting married in Napa Valley, I couldn’t have been more excited for a chance to check out “Italy of the west” with one of my best friends, Phil J  While it was a very different experience from Tuscany, and in some ways more costly and difficult to reach*, we’re glad we went both to enjoy their special day, and also to explore local California wines and cuisine.

Wine tastings
Our first tasting was at Rombauer. The tasting room is small and quaint, with no fuss service and delectable wines, ranging from a light and refreshing sauvignon blanc to a hearty cab. The true artistry here though is in their buttery chardonnay! And the view is lovely.



Next we had a luxurious wine and food pairing in the beautiful dining room of Davis Estates. The floor- to- ceiling wooden doors in the entryway revealed one of the most stunning views of Napa. Take it in from the lovely lanai adjacent to the elegant dining room and enjoy some most divine food pairings (include carrot curry soup and filet mignon that practically melts in your mouth), along with wine that matches the sophistication of the venue. You will want to savor every bite! Plan to walk away with a membership (there’s no pressure, it’s just that good!), which includes a minimum of four bottles of wine shipped to your home throughout the year. While you’re savoring this food and wine divinity, the knowledgeable sommelier will educate you not only about the wine, but also the impressive history of the owner and all his entrepreneurial advenutres. From old cars to saving vineyards, it’s quite the story!

The View from Davis Estates

 Curry Carrot Soup

Feeling So Relaxed in Wine Country!

On our last day, we visited Pride Mountain Vineyards at the recommendation of a friend. Wind through the hills (with no cell service- look up directions before you leave!) until you reach yet another absolutely breathtaking view. Here, you will be greeted by a sommelier who is as passionate about the wine as the vineyard owners . This was our favourite tasting, because we enjoyed his fun personality as he took us on a tour of the wine cellar and explained in great detail how the wines are aged. If you purchase a bottle or two here, the tasting is likely to be comped.



The Wedding: 
It was beautiful, elegant, and everything you'd dream of for a destination wedding in wine country. The ceremony and reception were held at a private mountain estate about 30 minutes outside of Calistoga. The bride and groom were married at an intimate ceremony overlooking a small pond surrounded by flower gardens in full bloom. One hundred feet away,  cocktail hour was immediately in full swing where they served signature drinks, followed by an dinner of southern fare served buffet style and al fresco on the lawn of the estate. The tables were decorated with simple pink roses displayed in wine bottles. The fun-loving nature of the bride and groom was evident when a doughnut truck arrived to serve dessert, and the rest of the night was spent dancing under the stars and string lights on the brick area where the ceremony took place. 
Sylan Lake Estates-Wedding Venue

Where to stay: I really lucked out in stumbling upon the Cottage Grove Inn on Groupon! It was quaint, quiet, clean, and just so lovely all around. Our cottage was complete with a fireplace, whirlpool tub, spacious sitting areas and the sweetest little porch where we enjoyed our complimentary wine and cheese tastings each evening. The staff was warm and welcoming, and incredibly accommodating. They provide free bicycles, board games and books to enjoy during your stay. I can’t imagine a more perfect and romantic setting anywhere.


Our Cottage

Complimentary Wine and Cheese Every Day:) 

Dining:
The main street is lined with restaurants, clothing stores and wine shops, and you really couldn’t want for anything here. The Chinese restaurant Soo Yuan was authentic and great quality food, and Sam's Social Club at Indian Springs Resort offered a relaxing terrace with firepits, flatbreads, craft cocktails and some of the best churros you’ve ever had in your life.
By far though, Solbar  at the luxury Solage resort was one of the most incredible meals either of us have ever enjoyed. After being waitlisted for three days at the famed French Laundry, which should allegedly be on every foodie’s bucket list, we ‘resigned’ to try Solbar instead after being assured by several friends it would exceed our expectations of even the elite French Laundry. And they were right! From start to finish, each dish was a delightful surprise. Combinations you would never guess would work ended up sending our minds and tastebuds into a state of euphoria. Yes, it was THAT GOOD! Skip the fru fru restaurant even the stars can’t get into, and go to Solbar. You won’t regret it.



       
          Pork Belly with Berries and Pea Puree                           Salmon Crudo


Napa Valley was a wonderful trip- we wined and dined, went for walks, rode bicycles, napped, lounged in front of the fireplace reading books, and soaked up the sunshine and antioxidants from all that wine. We returned home after the six hour flight rested and relaxed with some really wonderful memories. I’m still daydreaming about that carrot curry soup… J




 *Getting to Napa: Rent a car in San Francisco. Preferably at the airport where you have options. We spent a night in the city before driving to wine country, so we rented a car downtown. They were oversold and didn’t have enough cars. We almost didn’t get one, but ended up with a gaz-guzzling SUV. It’s about a one hour and forty-five minute drive to Calistoga. Allow extra time to navigate the complicated road system if you’re leaving from downtown San Francisco, and for traffic leaving the city. We left around noon and it wasn’t too heavy.





Thursday, May 18, 2017

The time I almost spent the night in Alcatraz…and tips for a perfect day in San Francisco



Okay, I didn’t REALLY almost spend the night there, but it seemed like it might be my fate when my Uber driver took a wrong turn onto treasure island, known to house the spooky old prison, at 1:30am! After several minutes of driving on winding, unlit back roads, with a first-time Uber driver innocently pointing out how creepy the surroundings were, and musing at how unusual it was for a hotel to be located so near to this tourist attraction, he realized he had missed a turn and accidentally taken us across the bay bridge going away from downtown. My spidey sense was telling me it was all an innocent mistake, but my imagination wandered to wondering if anyone would find me on the uber map if this guy had other plans for me! So travel tip #1 for this blog: If you’re traveling alone and your flight is delayed and you arrive in the middle of the night, don’t worry about saving $50 with Uber… just TAKE A CAB ! The drivers may often seem shady, but most of the time they at least know where the’yre going.
Eventually we made it to the Palace Hotel-  Luxury Collection, where I was to meet my friends, and I’ve never been happier to crawl into bed in a room with a locked door. The heated toilet seat and luxurious robes, delectable breakfast buffet and lavish lobby were lovely, but paled in comparison to my relief that I had made it alive, and be able to sleep horizontally after also enduring my first frontier airlines flight. Travel tip #2: I recently upgraded to a macbook and “downloaded” some movies to watch on the six hour flight here from Orlando- when the computer tells you the movies are ready to watch, it is lying! You have to click on them to download from the cloud first. If you’re traveling Frontier, know that the seats don’t recline and you’ll even pay for water. It matters not how long the flight is- so #3: bring a couple of empty water bottles to fill on the other side of airport security, pack snacks, a neck pillow, and a blanket to ease the discomfort of the very economical, but non-reclining and crowded seats.
To begin the day in the city, we took an Uber (much safer during the day and with a group of people!) to Fisherman’s Wharf. Ask to be dropped at Pier 39, and spend an hour exploring the shops and restaurants, old war ships on display, and even an arcade housing the oldest video games ever made (think original pac man and Atari!). Then venture down to the pier to see the sea lions and seals. This was the highlight of the whole day for me. It made me giddy to watch them sliding on and off the docks, and laying lazily in the sun. So cuteJ



Next, Uber to Chinatown a short car ride away for lunch. We enjoyed the dim sum at Great Eastern Restaurant; however, there was a line of locals at the place next door, and if I’d had more room to eat, I would have definitely stopped in for some lo mein and general tso’s as well! Shops here sell inexpensive souvenirs, and are all run by very kind and hospitable people who welcome you in a non-pushy way at the front door.


 After bidding my friends adieu and moving over to the Marriott Marquis, which was clean and simple albeit a little dark and unimpressive, I met my friend Phil and we explored the shops nearby to kill time while waiting for the surcharge on Ubers to drop. Just as google said (Phil wanted to stop in to apply for an internship, but we didn’t quite make it there;)), after 6pm the price dropped significantly and headed over to the Golden Gate Bridge. What a beautiful and incredible structure! 


Okay, tip #4 always call ahead to make sure the restaurant recommended as ‘best view of the bridge’ still exists before taking a $25 uber ride to it! We arrive at Travis Marina Bar to discover it was abandoned some time ago. Google had one thing right though, it WAS the best view possible I think!
So we called the next restaurant on the list for near the bridge and enjoyed beautiful views, a lovely fireplace, and craft cocktails at Bar Bocce in Sausalito. We enjoyed the breadsticks with pecorino and tomato dipping sauce, prawns in a red chili and lime sauce and the cod fritters with lemon aioli. We watched the sunset over the harbor, sipping on prosecco and Phil’s vodka drink du jour before heading back to the hotel.



Jet lag had the best of us, otherwise we would’ve checked out the great jazz clubs in the area. There was lots to see and do, and EAT, but we just ran out of time!  I’d like to say ‘next time’, but I’m not sure I’ll make it back to San Francisco.  While it certainly has its charm, there was a sadness in the streets with the number of homeless people and the city felt somewhat dirty. However, it was also one of the most environmentally conscious places I’ve ever visited, and I loved that about it. Filtered water dispensers in the hotel lobby, and lots of healthy, hipster folk taking good care of themselves and the earth was very refreshing.

It was nice to see, but for one more hour of travel time I could be in Paris, and I just think I’m more for the other side of the pond than this American counterpart. Next stop, wine country...!

Wednesday, September 14, 2016

How to Spend a Day on the Greek Isles of Corfu, Santorini, Mykonos and Katakolon

Greece is everything you dream it would be- from the whitewashed buildings with blue roofs in Santorini to the pristine beaches of Corfu, Mykonos and Katakolon there is culture, history and beauty around every corner of each island. For the whimsical, like my mom, you will feel like you’ve stepped onto the real life set of Mama Mia; for those of you who, like myself, travel to gain knowledge and perspective about the world and to experience other cultures, there are endless opportunities to indulge your curious nature, and your appetite! The food is fresh and always served with a humble smile. Your meal was probably picked from the garden or caught from the sea that very morning., and the options are SO healthy- spanakopita is a simple but satisfying delight enjoyed daily  by locals, along with greek salad. Much like the Venetians, they take great pride in their fresh seafood dishes; I recommend ordering one or two mouthwatering options (perhaps shrimp saganaki and the spaghetti vongole) for the table to share along with a salad and spinach pie. Don’t order an extra feta cheese- your salad will come with enough! Complete your meal with a glass of ouzo, and if you’re fortunate enough to find a good bakery nearby, order the baklavaJ
The food and scenery are worth the trip alone, but for me, the true charm of Greece is its people. Everywhere we went, we were greeted by friendly drivers, servers and store owners, and at no point did we ever feel anyone was taking advantage of our doe-eyed tourist selves.  The Greeks take pride in their culture, their land, and the way they treat people. Each of our drivers for the taxis and car rentals were knowledgeable of their island and went out of their way to make sure we had the most optimal experience possible. They took photos for us and were kind enough to stop at every picturesque spot we passed, even if it meant our reservation was running overtime. We thanked them with a generous tip of course, but that wasn’t even expected.  While much of the country is poverty stricken, and many are out of work, there were far fewer gypsies and peddlers than we’ve encountered in other parts of Europe in the last couple of years. And on this itinerary, there was no presence of anyone we as Americans may fear as dangerous. We were warned that Euros may be difficult to come by because of their current economic crisis, but ATMS were readily available, and most merchants accepted cash or credit cards, especially in the more populated areas like Santorini. The drivers did require payment in cash; however, we were met promptly on each island and received the service we reserved via email, without having to make a deposit.
The most special part of this trip for me was seeing another part of the world with my Grandma. When we first booked the trip and told her she was becoming quite the jetsetter, she texted back ‘That’s wonderful dear- I love being in the jetset!’. I mean, could she be any more adorable?! And she kept us on track- just as we’d become tired tourists and stop paying attention to the history in front of us, Grandma would marvel at the architecture, noticing some artistic detail lost on us until that moment. As she sat in the boat soaking in all the beauty from under floppy hat, or shared a plate of pasta and split a carafe of vino with me, I felt a quiet gratitude to be sharing this moment with her whilst creating incredible memories that will last a lifetime. As we wandered the streets of Venice (next blog!) earlier in the trip she contemplated where we would go next. We have a long bucket list of countries to see together!
                            Grandma and me at a scenic overlook in Oia

Okay, here is my recommended itinerary for each port day on the Norwegian Jade:


Day 1- Corfu:
Corfu was the most pleasant surprise of the trip. We hired Dimitris Dafnas and his partner Kostas at www.corfutaxiprivatetours.gr. In all my research online, I didn’t find much that excited me; I quickly discovered that is simply because the beauty of this place cannot be put into words or even effectively captured by a photograph. My friends and I found pictures of some nice beaches on trip advisor, but our drivers recommended alternatives when we asked to go with the “locals” would be. We stopped at a church well-known for weddings that was set against a beautiful background of water. It was lovely, but I would skip this stop on my next visit. We then took pictures at two overlooks as we wound around the hills to the other side of the mountain on the way to Paradise Beach

                                     Corfu view from the mountaintop

The drivers took us to a boating dock where they negotiated a private boat for 40 Euros pp. It was a fun and fairly calm ride to see caves on the way to the beach that truly was paradise


Corfu cave on the way to Paradise Beach

 The water was very chilly (to us Floridians anyway!) but people were swimming. My friend Greg and I ended up jumping in and found it to be very refreshing; there’s something very revitalizing about swimming in the Ionian Sea! Everyone who chose to stay on the boat enjoyed watching the sun dance on the pristine waters. We headed back to shore where our drivers were waiting (And have no fear of abandonment- they won’t leave their clients who have spend half a day with them but not yet paid them a dime!)
Next, we stopped at a quaint corner store on top of the mountain that sold homemade wares, spices and products made from the elusive kumquat fruit, which grows rarely in hidden corners of the world. The shop owners were delightful hosts, serving up samples of their housemade olive oil with bread along with liqueurs and wine. Everything was certifiably made in Corfu, and I recommend you shop for all your spices here, as additional purchases made in Katakolon yielded hitchhiking bugs… hundreds of them, found in my sister’s souvenir oregano! On the way back to town, we asked to stop at an authentic local restaurant. Much to our surprise, the place recommended was called Three Pigs Steak House, but it really was fantastic! They served all the Greek classics, and we stood out like a sore thumb amongst the locals, which was exactly what we wanted J
Corfu was beautiful and welcoming and we can’t wait to go back, hopefully on a sailboat complete with a captain and chef, for a longer stay next time!

Sailing into Santorini was pretty amazing; we sat on our balcony (Yes, you HAVE to splurge for a balcony room on this cruise!
) and marveled at how they must have gotten all those cars onto this island and up the mountain, as well as how difficult it would be to leave and take your car with you!
You don’t want to miss a moment on this beautiful island- get in line to catch one of the first tenders off the boat (small boat that takes you from cruise ship to shore and back to the ship) and avoid some of the hot and sweaty crowds trying to determine where to go next once they arrive on shore.
Several experienced travelers told me Oia is one of the most beautiful places in the world, and they were right. So, when you arrive, don’t take the funicular with the masses of people heading up the mountain; instead, veer to the left and buy a ticket for the “speed boat” (30 Euros per person) to Oia. The boat will drop you off at the base of the mountain where you will walk up a short but steep path to the motorcoach to transfer to Oia at the top of the mountain. Caution: if you’re traveling with anyone elderly or with knee problems, this hike can be a challenge- it would be best to arrange transportation in advance of your trip to meet you at the boat dock. My 75-year old Gramma made it, but it was a bit of a challenge. From the bus stop, it’s about a 5-minute walk to the narrow and steep cobblestone streets of Oia. There are leather, clothing and pottery shops galore. Many of the restaurants are extremely over-priced, but it’s worth an $8 “shaved ice” for a chance to rest your feet and cool off for a minute. Don’t expect wifi to be readily available- the Greeks believe in actually spending time with the people you came with or, heaven forbid, yourself!
We had a reservation at Kastro, which came highly recommended by trip advisor as one of the top-rated restaurants with a sunset view (by the way, if you’re cruising in the summer, you’re not going to see the sunsetL). Unfortunately it was too much walking on an incline for some of our party; however those of us who were able went to check it out, and if you’re not too tired, it’s definitely worth the walk, just for the view. We ended up settling on an excellent family-run (as they all seem to be!) restaurant with a gorgeous view of the water called Lotza. The food and service were spectacular.
                                                       


 After purchasing some sandals and a couple Greek designer clothing items, we caught the last hourly bus departing back to Santorini. It was a downhill stroll all the way from the bus to the funicular. The icing on the cake for this perfect day was a frozen greek yogurt to enjoy on the somewhat terrifying steep incline of the cable car ride down the mountain to catch the last tender back to the ship to watch the sky turn burnt orange as the sun dips behind the mountain.

Mykonos, known for its nightlife and retired windmills was another pleasant surprise. Here, we “rented a car” from www.mykonosrentacar-online.com. After much research and emailing back and forth with the car rental company, we discovered this was basically the same as a hired driver on the other islands. We rented a Mercedes minivan for seven people, which included fuel, tax and our driver George for 180 Euros for four hours, which was plenty of time to explore the island. First, we stopped at the windmills, and then on to an old lighthouse with a beautiful view of the water. We then drove down the mountain to see some stunning rocky beaches.



                                                  Beaches of Mykonos

 Next, our driver took us to Super Paradise Beach. The food was mediocre and the beach chairs and umbrellas over-priced for a quick stop, at 20 euros for two chairs for the day, no matter the length of your stay. However, it really was paradise, so it was well worth the drive and fees. After an hour and a half at the beach, we embarked back to the ship, stopping for one more “perfect picture”


                                             Mykonos Scenic Overlook


And, we still hadn’t found any Baklava, but George took us to Kvkhayivo Pattesserie full of delectable goods and it did not disappoint.

A couple general pieces of advice/information about Mykonos 1) It’s extremely windy, everywhere, but not quite as strong at the Super Paradise Beach 2) there are lots of feral but friendly cats roaming the island 3) Eat a hearty breakfast on the ship to avoid falling victim to one of the poorly reviewed tourist traps you’ll pass on your way into town from the cruise dock. But definitely don’t pass up the baklava from Κνκζαμινο Patisserie!

Last, but certainly not least (could anything be least in the Greek Isles?!) is Katakolon. There was a garbage strike, and we did pass some gypsy children panhandling in the street, as well as the unfortunate bug-in-spice incident I surprised my poor sister with in her souvenir (!!!), but once we got away from the cruise dock, we found the beaches and restaurants here were just as lovely as the other islands.
We hired Private Tours by George and Takis, as recommended by Rick Steves to drive us to Olympia- the original site of the Olympics. It was worth the 180 euro per car for 4 hours to beat the bus traffic from cruise ship excursions. It was fascinating to walk the grounds covering so much ancient history and reminisce what it must have looked like thousands of years ago. Skip the guided tour and take the book your driver offers you and/or download the Rick Steves guide so you know what you’re looking at as you wander the site. We enjoyed the air-conditioned museum full of artifacts near the exit, where our drivers promptly collected us right as the droves of people began filing in. Next, they took us to this beachfront restaurant, Απολανοτε τα with a view that could have easily been from somewhere in the carribbean if you forgot where you were for a minute! Once again, the food was incredible- order the saganaki, the breaded chicken appetizer, greek salad and a pasta, and enjoy a greek beer while enjoying another one of the most breathtakingly beautiful beaches I’ve ever seen.


                                        Beach in Katakolon, 20 minutes from the port



My trip to Greece taught me that there is still kindness in the world, and that it thrives in places where people put people first. The Greeks honour family, and take pride in their heritage and culture. They believe in passing on tradition, in creating quality products and services, and in relishing in the finer things in life- such as enjoying a meal made with only the freshest ingredients to support a healthy lifestyle. I hope to return again someday; in the meantime efcharisto (thank you!) to the Greeks who welcomed us so warmly, shared their home and history with grace and kindness, and gave us this gentle reminder with smiling eyes and all their hospitality to take care of ourselves and each other always<3